The Sensual Sauna - Autumn Equinox Edition

Welcome to The Sensual Sauna.

Here you are invited to immerse yourself in a world outside of time, a space where the heat of the sauna and the roar of the fire invite us deeper into sensory delights, profound connection and conscious touch.

At the Sensual Sauna, we create a time and space to connect with your senses, your body and offers a space for co-regulation with other humans too.

We all need human connection to survive, but often our connections are forced into limited boxes where intimacy is reserved only for sexuality. At the Sensual Sauna there is **NO GENITAL TOUCH** and we encourage you to expand your idea of connection, beyond your sexuality or gender, to be curious about how you might like to connect in each moment.

The whole evening is designed around your choice and freedom, you can come along and be entirely alone all night and just enjoy the spa, or you can choose to engage with others in different ways!

**Male tickets are currently sold out**

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What’s included?

Wood-Fired Sauna & Open Campfire (Fire Element) 🌞

Allow yourself to rest and relax in the heat of the sauna or gather around the open fire and look up at the stars! Some benefits of this include:

✨ Deep body relaxation

✨ Physical benefits of heat exposure

✨ Heart-centred conversation and connection

✨ Optional massage

✨ Connecting to the element of fire (transformation, power, renewal)

Wood-Fired Hot Tub & Cold Plunge Pool (Water Element) 🌊

Indulge in the soothing embrace of the hot tub for bubbly chats, magic and an open sky and then take a dip in the cold plunge for the full body reset! Benefits include:

✨ Relaxation and stress relief

✨ Nervous system regulation

✨ Enhanced circulation

✨ A sense of emotional wellbeing and connection

✨ Intimate conversations

✨ Spa-like luxury, darling!

✨ Rejuvenation of body and spirit

Rest & Connection (Earth Element) 🌿

Self and co-regulation in a womb-like dome, heated to the perfect temperature. Chance to stick your feet on the earth for grounding. Connection games and practices for grounding. Big fruit platters and/or soup for your belly, depending on the day you attend.

Benefits include:

✨ Chance for your animal body to come alive

✨ Connecting to the earth and it’s natural grounding, supports with anxiety

✨ Increased self-awareness and emotional resilience

✨ A deeper connection to your own body and its wisdom

✨ Chance to practice authentic communication in a contained space

Magic & Mystery (Air Element) 🌬

Chance to step into the magic and mystery of the garden, and of course we can’t give away too much. A sprinkle of magic and your imagination and wonder is all that’s needed here.

Benefits include:

✨ Increased sense of playfulness

✨ Remembering the magic of life

✨ Connection to something other-worldly

✨ Space to let go and co-create

Accessibility

To enter the house there is one flights of stairs (with handrail), then to reach the garden there are two flights of stairs down (with handrail). To enter the hot tub there is a step to get in and out. To enter the cold plunge barrel there is a step in and out (without a handrail).

Gendering Tickets Whilst this event is not centred around gender or gendered experiences, if we perceive that stereotypically male names are dominating ticket sales we will limit male tickets.

FAQ’S

Can you describe the space in more detail?

You will enter through a residential home; our hidden garden sanctuary is a serene and intimate space designed for connection and relaxation. There are two flights of stairs to consider in terms of accessibility; there is one toilet inside the house.  The enchanted garden features:

•A sauna that comfortably accommodates up to 8 people in a seated position

• A hot tub that can hold ten people shoulder to shoulder

• A refreshing cold barrel plunge for an invigorating dip

• An outdoor shower surrounded by natural beauty

• A beautiful geodome tent offering a space for consensual cuddles and massages

• A cosy fire pit with seating for warm gatherings and conversation

• Patio space where you can dance to the rhythm of the silent disco

• Live musicians to enhance the sensory experience

What is a Sensual Sauna?

In a time where we are so technologically driven and disconnected from ourselves, community and nature itself, we desperately need to remember how to identify, communicate and fulfil our deepest needs as human beings. We all need love and connection to survive and The Sensual Sauna is a remedy to this. Our events offer a space to connect to your senses, your body and to each other. Sensual Saunas are open and welcoming to individuals of all gender identities and orientations.

How can I take care of myself at the event?

• To ensure you feel as at-ease as possible, please clearly communicate your boundaries and practice asking for consent - we will offer some tools and skills to navigate these conversations

• Take time out if needed and go slower than you think!

• Respect the boundaries of others

• Seek assistance or support from the facilitators or assistants as needed

What if I’m new to sensual spaces?

Sensual Sauna events welcome all levels of experience, including those new to such experiences. We aim to create an inclusive space for exploration and connection. Our friendly assistants and facilitators are here to support you if you have any questions or concerns.

What activities may happen?

Activities may include authentic relating exercises, embodiment practices, sensual touch (non-genital), connection exercises, sensory experiences and a good sprinkle of magic. These activities are designed to promote connection, intimacy, and presence. Everything is optional, and there is no pressure to participate in anything.

What should I wear?

You are encouraged to wear whatever makes you feel comfortable. Full nudity is welcome but not essential. Some people choose to wear swimsuits, some go naked. Bring warm things! Make sure to read the welcome email for more information.

Is consent important?

• Consent is a fundamental principle in all our events. All activities are rooted in consent, and attendees are encouraged to communicate boundaries and ask for consent before engaging in any activity.

• It is up to you to act with integrity with your boundaries, and the facilitators and assistants are here to support you in this.

What should I bring?

• Pack for the spa, darling!! We recommend bringing a two towels, a cosy robe for comfort, flip-flops, and a water bottle to stay hydrated throughout the event.

• We will not provide any of the above, so please come with everything that will make you feel comfortable.

As stated above please read the welcome email when you’ve saved your spot.

What will the evening consist of?

· There will be an opening circle after everyone’s arrived (this is compulsory), then we go down to the garden for a real welcome into the space, followed by connection games, sensory meditation and then chance to explore all the sensory zones!

We end the night with a closing circle for those still with us.

Should I eat prior to the event?

• Please make sure you are nourished and hydrated before you arrive.

We recommend not eating too heavily before the event to engage in the sensory experiences fully. Fruit will be provided to keep you nourished and you are welcome to bring any snacks you might desire.

Please ensure you are well-hydrated throughout the evening.

Are there opportunities for solo/group experiences?

Yes, The Sensual Sauna offers a blend of solo and group experiences which you can choose to engage with. You are encouraged to explore as you feel comfortable, whether that means connecting one-on-one, joining group activities, or taking moments for personal reflection.

Can I leave the event early if needed?

• Yes. You have the freedom to exit the event at any time - there is also a space to go and rest and take a break if you need to be alone. Please prioritse self-care and agency! We want you to have fun and feel comfy. If you do need to leave, please inform the facilitators so we can ensure you are supported.

What about confidentiality?

• Confidentiality is paramount for us, and we always aim to create a space where participants feel secure in sharing and exploring without fear of their experiences being disclosed outside of the event.

• We discuss confidentiality at the beginning of the event and ask that all participants do not share the name or identity of anyone else at the event or take photos

What about gender?

• Sensual saunas are a gender-celebrating and gender-affirming evening meaning all bodies are welcome and celebrated.

• Please avoid making assumptions about gender and respect individuals' pronouns and identities; if you want to learn more about gender, you can do so here: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/article/understanding-gender-identities/

• PLEASE BE AWARE that we may ‘gender balance’ our events, which would look like limiting the number of cis-male tickets.

• No activities will be based on ‘gender pairing.’

• We invite sensuality, intimacy, and connection from a human need perspective to co-regulate through the presence of touch that goes beyond gender.

What are the temperatures of the spa areas?

• The sauna temperature is typically maintained between 80-90 degrees Celsius, while the hot tub is around 38 degrees Celsius. We strive to ensure a comfortable and relaxing experience for all participants.

• We offer a cold plunge experience with a temperature typically hovers around 8 degrees Celsius. It's a refreshing and invigorating option for those who wish to partake.

• Between the spa areas we will be outside, so please bring weather-appropriate clothing.

Refund Policy

Tickets are exchangeable but non-refundable. If you are no longer able to attend and find someone else to take your space please let us know their name and email address so we can change the ticket over to them.

Who are the facilitators?

Aj England: Aj is a creative rebel, always charting her own unique path. With a rich and diverse background spanning many years, she has honed her expertise as a psychosynthesis counsellor, relationship and intimacy therapist, trauma specialist, breathwork facilitator, conscious kink and urban tantra practitioner, and authentic relating facilitator. Aj's vast experience is coupled with an innate talent for putting people at ease, infusing depth, wisdom, and a delightful sense of playfulness into her therapeutic work.

Beyond her professional pursuits, Aj is passionate about nurturing a family within a Queer relationship, non-conforming household. She actively seeks to educate and inspire others about the rich tapestry of relationship styles that exist. She's embarking on a journey as an intimacy coordinator for television and film, aiming to bring more diversity and authenticity to on-screen intimacy scenes.

In addition to her therapeutic endeavours, Aj shares her insights through motivational talks and panel discussions. She draws from her personal experiences in conquering challenges, including overcoming cancer and other health conditions, all while wielding the transformative powers of love, surrender, and playful resilience. Aj's journey is a testament to her unwavering commitment to living authentically and fearlessly.

Ria Hope: Ria Hope is a queer Sexuality & Intimacy Mentor, Conscious Kinkster & Energy Medicine Practitioner. Since 2018 she has been paving the way for accessible and down-to-earth information on sexuality and relating and hopes to use her work in this area as a tool for radical social change. She places activism and equality at the forefront of her work, believing that the crux of many issues in the modern world stem from a lack of education on sexuality, connection, and relationships.

Ria's approach is multi-modal; incorporating both the mystery and the magic, and the earthy, grounded reality of the world that we live in, traversing from light to dark and back again. Ria creates spaces for human beings to dream new worlds into being through embodiment, sexuality and sensuality, cheekiness and deep, authentic connections.

She hosts workshops across the UK and offers 1-1 conscious kink sessions, energy work sessions and mentoring both online and offline. To find out more about their work please visit www.riahope.co.uk or www.instagram.com/riahope.sexuality